Getting Married in College is a Good Idea

While young marriage is typically looked down upon in American society, many college students are reaping the benefits of marriage while in school. Despite the fact that these marriages may be labeled as an \"impending failure,\" young marriages produce many benefits that are not always considered. Outlined below are several of the benefits that come from getting married at a young age:

1. Combined income and expenses

Many couples put off marriage because \"it's too expensive.\" While the wedding

ceremony itself may be costly, living together after marriage is not. In fact, couples who marry will find that their expenses may actually decrease from the time they spent

engaged. This is due to combined income, rent, and food items. Instead of having to buy two gallons of milk each week, couples will only have to buy one. They won't need two couches, or two beds, or two sets of dishes. By marrying, couples will find that they are able to get rid of duplicate items which will save them space and provide them with extra cash. They also will not need to continue purchasing double groceries because many items are able to be shared, such as milk (as noted above), eggs, flour, and other baking goods.

2. Financial Aid

Financial Aid, a positive college benefit, is available for most college students. However, there are special grants and scholarships available specifically for students who are married. Many students who are married while attending college will qualify as \"non-traditional students,\" which opens up opportunities for unique scholarships. For more information on special Pell grants or scholarships at your school, visit your financial aid office and asks about benefits for married students.

3. More chances of fertility

The chances of conceiving a child greatly decrease as a person ages. While young people still experience fertility problems, the chances of being able to conceive a child without medical intervention are higher if a couple decides to have children in their early 20s, rather than their late 30s.

4. Ability to grow and change together

There's an old saying that you aren't the same person at 30 that you were at 25, so getting married at 25 is a bad decision. While it's true that we, as humans, are constantly changing, it's also true that a young marriage can last years if the couple enters the

relationship with the understanding that they can grow TOGETHER. While it's normal to have different life experiences, by marrying young, a couple can experience those things together (whether that be graduation, job changes, family issues, or personal discoveries) and in those shared experiences, the couple can grow closer to one another. 5. Discovering yourselves together

The college years are often viewed as \"the years of discovery.\" It is during these

formative years that most people are deciding what they want to be when they grow up, where they want to live, and whether they want to have careers or a family first. Having a companion during these formative years can be very beneficial because it's so easy to feel lost and alone during this time. Many college students feel that no one else understands what they are going through, and by having a spouse close by to encourage and uplift them, the discovery period can be both easier and less traumatic.

There is a newly dissension putting forward these days: Is it legally allowed for Chinese on-campus students to get married before they complete their courses? Some people prefer \"yes\" while some others prefer \"no\". Certainly a large number of people just cannot decide which side they should be stand.

In fact, the governments allow on-campus students to get married before they complete their course. There isn‘ t a regulation proclaimed in writing to forbid marriage of on-campus students. But it must affect those triers.In my opinion, it is unnecessary to forbid on-campus students to get married before they finished their college, however, it shouldn‘ t be advocated or encouraged. Because, for on-campus students, their play the role as learners. Their main task is to learn. If they married, their school work must be affected and they may not graduate favorably or may not be capable for future works. So, I believe: almost all on-campus students would deal with the question reasoningly

There is no denying the fact that it is a hotly debated topic today whether college students should be allowed to get married. Some time ago, the ban was lifted by some universities on students getting married. To this people’s attitudes differ sharply.

Some hold the positive view. They say that most college students are adults and that it is a basic right for those who have reached the appropriate ages to get married. Besides, they argue that with their biological and emotional needs met, these students will study better.

The ban on this means a severe violation of human rights.

Many others, however, hold the negative opposite view. They claim that the university or college is a place to study instead of a community to lead family life. Allowing college students to get married would adversely affect their study. For instance, they would spend too much time attending their family and love, unable to concentrate on their school work.As far as I am concerned, Weighing the arguments of both sides, I believe that college students should not be allowed to get married.

Though mostly adults, they are actually immature psychologically. Their wishes to get married are, more often than not, impulses. Besides, as students, they are not ready to support a family financially.

在2007年，人口计生委、教育部和公安部就联合发文，对在校已婚女大学生生育问题进行规定。文件规定，女大学生生育期间可以办理休学手续，高校不得予以退学。在校期间所生子女的户口可在该子女的祖父母或者外祖父母常住户口所在地申报。

对于允许在校已婚大学生生育，不同的人，站在各自不同的角度，有不同的见解，这些都是正常的。有的人认为允许在校大学生生育是人性化的表现，也有的人认为这是过份宽容。而我在想，既然人口计生委、教育部和公安部联合发文允许大学生生育，我相信一定是经过深思熟虑才决定的，肯定是有一定道理的。不过对于此事，我心中一直有一个疑问：大学生生了孩子谁来养呢？

无容置疑，大学生通常是没有自己固定的经济收入的，如果学业都没毕业就生了孩子，那么势必要休学回家带孩子，那么养孩子的经济费用从哪来呢？是孩子的父亲？那如果孩子的父亲也是一名大学生呢？那么谁来支付养孩子的费用呢？

有的人也许会说，那孩子的外公外婆或是爷爷奶奶来提借经济来源。唉，要知道有多少父母会愿意自己辛苦培养出来的大学生，还没毕业就往家里抱个孩子呢？按传统观念来说，这还是不会被大家欣然接受的事情，再说了，现在养一个孩子的费用可不低啊，有的家庭原本经济基础就不好，这时再突然添加一个孩子，势必会给家庭造成一定的负担，也会增加很多矛盾，孩子在这样的环境与气氛下也难以健康快乐地成长。

另外，女大学生们，人生经验不足、社会阅力也浅，在大学期间就匆忙生了孩子，难免给人以草率之感，万一以后后悔了可就晚了。

而且现在的社会，大学生们就业原本就难，而女大学生们就更难了。如果大学期间生了孩子，再耽误几年去带孩子，然后再去完成学业，去找工作的难度势必更

大了。在现在这个社会，女人也应该有自己固定的经济收入，不能年纪轻轻就靠别人来养活，这样的日子很难让人过得踏实。

生了孩子就得好好地把孩子养大，只是女大学生们一旦生了孩子，想好好把孩子养大的难度可不会小。在我看来，除非自己有经济基础，否则还是不要轻易地在求学期间生育孩子为好，生了孩子就要自己来养孩子，把孩子生下来交给别人来养，对孩子是一种极不负责任的行为。

In 2007, the Population and Family Planning Commission, the Ministry of Education and the Ministry of Public Security jointly issued a document, the fertility of the married female college students in the school regulations. The document stipulates that the reproductive period of female college students can apply for leave of absence procedures, universities may not be expelled. In school children born during the account can be declared in the child's grandparents or maternal grandparents permanent residence.

Allows the fertility of married college students in the school, different people, standing on their different perspectives, different views, these are normal. Some people think that allows college students in fertility is the performance of humane, and some people think this is excessive

tolerance. I Population and Family Planning Commission, Ministry of Education and the Ministry of Public Security jointly issued a document to allow Students fertility, I believe that must be decided after careful consideration, is certainly a grain of truth. For this, I always have a doubt: college students birth to a child who is going to raise?

Again, students usually do not own a fixed income, if the school never graduated from the birth of a child, it is bound to leave of absence to go home with children, then raise the economic costs of the children come from it? Is the father of the child? If the child's father is a college student? So who should pay for the cost of raising children?

Some people might say that the child's grandparents or grandparents to mention, by source of income. I want to know how many parents would be willing to hard-trained college students before graduating to go out into the house to hold a child? By the traditional concept, this is not to be pleased to accept the things, say, the cost of raising a child from time to low-ah, some families, the original economic base is not good, then suddenly add a child is bound to cause some burden to the family, will add a lot of contradictions, and children in such an environment and atmosphere, it is difficult to grow up healthy and happy.

In addition, female college students, and lack of life experience, social reading power is also shallow, hastily birth to a child in college, often give rise to a sloppy sense of, if later regret it may too late.

And social, college students employment was originally difficult, while the female college students is even harder. The college gave birth to a child, to delay for a few years to go with children, and then go to complete their studies more difficult to find work is bound to even greater. In this society, a woman should have their own fixed income can not be young to rely on others to feed, so the days of the hard life at ease.

Birth of a child have to take to raise the baby, the only female college students have a baby, want to take to raise a child with great difficulty can not be small. In my opinion, unless they have the economic base, or still do not easily give birth during the study child, birth of a child is necessary to raise a child, the child was born to someone else to raise children is an extremely irresponsible behavior.